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A Common Myth about Intimacy, Sexuality and Pleasure

By Susie and Otto Collins

No matter what society or culture, men and women have each been handed a set of "rules" by which they are expected to live. 

In the western culture, these "rules" are constantly being challenged but still have a strong hold on our belief systems.

As women, we've been told in many ways that we need to be sexy for a man but our sexual pleasure is to take a back seat to their pleasure. 

As men, we've been told that performance and "size" is what matters and our ability to have and sustain erections is the most important aspect of lovemaking. 

It goes even further...

There's a great big myth that has been taught to men and women in this society about how to have a successful sexual relationship.

The myth is that there is a seducer, there's the person being seduced, and there's a great deal of excitement in the chase.

This is the way we were unconsciously taught to begin intimate relationships.

In our opinion, if you want to have a great sexual relationship, it's not about seduction.

It's about heart, intimacy and connection.

So often when people buy into the myth of seduction, the sexual "charge" between the two people dims and grows dull after time. The "chase" simply isn't as exciting anymore.

If you move toward deeper intimacy and connection, your sexuality can deepen in the process.

How do you deepen intimacy and connection?

You deepen it by committing to deepen it and constantly opening to that commitment.

Here's what we mean...

We dedicate an hour each morning to connection, intimacy and our sexuality. We realize that not everyone can arrange their lives the way we have to allow them to do this.

The point is that we make our connection, intimacy and sexuality a priority.

Whether you are able to dedicate an hour or 15 minutes a day, we invite you to commit to deepening your connection with each other.

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